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Scolding undermines effective parenting. This is why.

Scolding undermines effective parenting. This is why.

Did you know that lecturing or scolding undermines the effectiveness of our parenting? Find out why as well as how…
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Research says this is how to use positive parenting from a position of strength

Research says this is how to use positive parenting from a position of strength

To many, positive parenting, also known as authoritative parenting, sounds like a misnomer. If you take away punishment, how will…
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3 Golden Rules to Give Your Child the Best Summer Ever

3 Golden Rules to Give Your Child the Best Summer Ever

When it comes to summer activities for kids, you don’t need to plan or spend too much. In fact, the…
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There is an undeclared war on childhood. This is how to stop it.

There is an undeclared war on childhood. This is how to stop it.

There is a higher incidence of child stress, anxiety and disorders than ever before. This is how to change the…
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When Children Fight, This is the Opportunity You Won’t Want to Miss

When Children Fight, This is the Opportunity You Won’t Want to Miss

When children fight, we want it to stop. And for good reason, we want our kids to be safe and…
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Extracurricular activities for kids: Why science says less is more

Extracurricular activities for kids: Why science says less is more

With summer holidays approaching, it’s natural to worry about our kids’ boredom. No one wants their kids spending the summer fighting over the iPad or in a state of complacency.

It doesn’t help that this time of year, Facebook newsfeeds are punctuated with articles about ‘The Summer Slide.’ They warned that some students experienced academic regression as a result of being away from school for so long.

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Hi! I'm Alana. When I'm not nursing cold, stale coffee, I usually can be found with the baby on my hip, barefoot, and racing after my two older kids. Thanks to a degree in psychology and a free-range childhood backing onto an expansive evergreen forest, positive parenting and play-based learning are my passions. Read more here.

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I remember in my earlier days of parenting when I I remember in my earlier days of parenting when I had two under two so much of my life was spent thinking I’ll be happy when…

I’ll be happy when they sleep through the night.

I’ll be happy when my husband doesn’t have to work such late hours.

I’ll be happy when I look and feel like myself again and not a feeding troth 😬😬😬

As it turns out this struggle with finding happiness isn’t unique to me or parenting. 

Collectively our mental health is suffering, but there are many research backed ways to improve happiness. (Link in bio to read more).
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Though there are countless people who understand t Though there are countless people who understand the importance of positive, responsive parenting, the idea that young children should self-soothe remains a prevalent belief.

Though this ideology is well-intentioned, it actually goes against what we know about human development.

Babies come into the world highly dependent on responsive caregiving not only for nurturance and protection but also to foster social and emotional development.

While it may seem that leaving a child to cry will help her learn to cope, it actually floods her brain with cortisol. She doesn’t learn to self-soothe but instead to shut down.

Though it may seem counterintuitive to some, independence is fostered through responsive care. The less stressed a child feels, the safer he feels to explore his world. The less stressed he feels, the more appropriate his emotional responses become.

This is first seen in late infancy but pervades through childhood and adulthood.

Have any questions about these findings? Feel free to comment below or send me a message!
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So often independence and attachment are thought t So often independence and attachment are thought to be mutually exclusive.
However, research shows that in order for children (and adults) to be independent, they need to feel safe and secure within their closest relationships. In childhood, this means having caregivers who respond to distress and both emotional and physical needs.
In adulthood, people who have responsive and caring partners feel more stable and comfortable being independent.
So hold and comfort those babies.
Hug and respond to your kids.
Love and hold space for the adults you are closest to.
Attachment fosters independence.
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