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December 27, 2015 By Alana Pace 24 Comments

10 Tips for Minimizing and Organizing Toys

If you’re overwhelmed by toys post-Christmas or any time of year, inside is loaded with the best tips for minimizing and organizing toys.


Christmas was a success.

The kids are thrilled with their Playmobil, Beyblades and Melissa and Doug Sushi set.

When I sort through everything my kids have from only three and a half years of Christmases, birthdays, and special occasions, I can’t help but be filled with nostalgia and gratitude.

The memories from each stage of my kids’ lives are ones I want to hold onto forever. The immense appreciation I feel for the generosity those in our lives have shown makes me want to keep everything. I don’t want anyone to think even the smallest gift is underappreciated. The counterbalance in this is that I want my sanity. I want my kids to appreciate what they have and I don’t want my home to look as though Toys R Us has thrown up all over it. So, I make a point of parting ways with toys as much as my heart can handle. Here are some of my tips on minimizing and organizing toys.

toy pile, toy mess - includes tips to minimize and organize toys

10 Tips On Minimizing And Organizing Toys

When it comes to minimizing toys, I try and purge our toys both before and after each special occasion. So once before and once after my daughter’s birthday, once before and once after my son’s birthday, once before and once after Christmas, and once before and once after Oma visits (my husband’s mom lives in Belgium and quite literally is the most generous person I know).

Why before and after?

Well before is preemptive and in anticipation for what is to come. After is because once we have received gifts, older toys may seem redundant and of less value. When doing this, despite making things more difficult, I try and involve my kids in the purge. While I don’t do this each and every time, it’s amazing the negotiation tactics a three-year-old can employ when a useless McDonald’s toy gathering dust is about to hit the road for good. However, I want to explain to my kids that some other children are less fortunate than they are and I want them to understand the sacrifice of giving something up for someone who doesn’t have as much as them. I also want to underscore appreciate for the toys they do have.

When minimizing toys, here are some strategies I employ to decide what should stay and what should go.

Toddler in an organized, minimalistic playroom.

What Should Stay

Toys kids play with on a daily basis.

(I don’t have to describe this too much. You know your kids’ favourites)

Toys that encourage open-ended, imaginative play.

Examples include blocks, figures, items that are toy versions of real-life items, play dough, dress-up clothes, and arts and crafts supplies. Play is pertinent for exploration, problem-solving, and trying out more complex skills and these toys encourage this.

Toys that grow with your child.

Examples include what is mentioned above, dollhouses, train sets, and lego are all items that can accommodate the most primitive to the most elaborative of play.

Classic toys.

Dolls, farms, blocks, cars, trains, planes, phones, and other similar items have been played with for generations. When it comes to longevity and the relevance of toys timeless seems to be one of the best rules of thumb.

 

Minimizing toys and what should go

Anything really specific to an age group is not worth keeping for long. 

The exer-saucer, play mat, and textured baby dolls are amazing educational toys from the under one crowd. Shortly thereafter, they need to go. The same goes for Duplo after your kids have graduated completely to lego and so forth.

Toys that have little or no play value without the use of battery-operated buttons.

You may think but my Vtech or Leap Pad toy is educational. Of course, it sings, moos, and rhymes more than any other toy listed in the examples above. However, it requires next-to-nothing from your child.

Sure your child may join in their approximation of song, or press a combination of lights, but research shows these are the worst toys. While a song that plays inside a toy castle, or a train noise on a train set are hardly a big deal, the ones that are reliant on batteries for the majority of their value are worth donating. Based on the best information at hand, these toys are used literally and evoke little to no imagination or any of the benefits of play-based learning. Consider wooden blocks versus a buttoned, battery-operated toy. In the case of the former, they can be used to build a house, barricade, or anything a child can imagine. In contrast, the latter tends to be used only the way the toymaker intended it to be used.

Broken toys you’ve been meaning to fix for ages but haven’t. 

 

Tips On Organizing Toys

Self-contained toys are a momma’s best friend.

Playmobil, Mr. Potato Head, Lego, and Mega Bloks all have self-contained options. When choosing gifts for friends’ kids, I love choosing something that can be put away inside itself.

Containers with lids are another favourite.

I try and keep things organized in their respective containers away from our main play area. The kids can go and grab a container or two to play with. Once those toys get cast aside or we are moving on to something else, we return them to their containers. (NB I’m not perfect at this. It is a continual work in progress).

Rotate toys.

Using the shelves of closets, the basement, crawl space, attic, or storage area in your apartment building, rotate out your children’s toys. Recently, I asked my kids to help me as we organized toys into three piles. First, favourite toys that they play with almost every day. Then, we split the remaining toys into:

  1. toys they were ready to throw or give away,
  2. and toys that we could pack away into our “toy store.”

After that, I cleared two shelves in our garage. Then, set up the toys like toys in a store. They agreed that each time they wanted to get a toy, they would exchange it for one they had out.

A final note about our decluttering and toy rotating process

Since minimizing and organizing toys, the kids play more. This is because they are overwhelmed less by a surplus of stuff. Not only that, but clean-up is less overwhelming too. Now, they have the space to play more freely. And, when they get bored, we can venture into the garage and get “new” toys.

 

Other great articles about the benefits of simplifying children’s lives:

Child stress and the undeclared war on childhood. This is how we stop it.

Science says this is the best approach to extracurricular activities for kids.

Why breaking the Golden Rule of screentime is better for your family.

 

 

 


Filed Under: Play-Based Learning Activities, Posts Tagged With: Christmas, developmental toys, educational toys, facilitate play-based learning at home, minimizing toys, organizing toys

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  1. Jill says

    December 27, 2015 at 8:45 pm

    I didn’t purge before this Christmas and I’m so, so so regretting it right now. We have a playroom that normally contains the toys but they’re all over the fricken house right now and it’s half driving me insane. The other half of me doesn’t give a crap and I just want to eat more cookies.

    Reply
    • Alana says

      December 27, 2015 at 9:05 pm

      Cookies are my coping strategy more often than I’d like to admit!!! Thanks so much for reading ❤️

      Reply
  2. mamabyfire says

    December 27, 2015 at 10:55 pm

    Yessss! Zoe and I went through and gave away a ton of toys before Christmas. But now that it’s over, we’ll need to go through everything again. Theres just soooo much stuff!!!

    Reply
    • Alana says

      December 27, 2015 at 10:56 pm

      So much stuff! Thank you for reading and commenting ❤️❤️❤️

      Reply
  3. Michelle says

    December 28, 2015 at 7:50 am

    Great tips on keeping it organized. Every time I try to have a yard sale, the kids are suddenly interested o that toy they haven’t touched in months. My husband has been trying to get rid of the sit n spin for months and despite it, we still have it.

    Reply
  4. triciathegoodmama says

    December 28, 2015 at 4:42 pm

    Great advice! I forgot to organize before Christmas, but I really need to do a big purge now. They are fairly organizes because I love storage crates and bins, but we have way too much stuff!

    Reply
  5. Lauren says

    December 28, 2015 at 8:06 pm

    I need to rotate toys more.. that is such a good idea!

    Reply
    • Alana says

      December 28, 2015 at 8:07 pm

      I need the reminder myself sometimes! Thanks so much for reading ❤️

      Reply
  6. Alyssa from The Sparkly Life says

    December 29, 2015 at 5:40 pm

    This post couldn’t have come at a better time. My kids got so much crap for Christmas and that’s on top of all the crap they already owned. I’m drowning in toys! So much good advice here!! I absolutely love the idea of doing a purge before and after special occasions. Thanks to you, we’ll be starting our post-Xmas purge asap! 🙂

    Reply
    • Alana says

      December 29, 2015 at 5:41 pm

      Thanks so much for your comment ❤️❤️❤️

      Reply
  7. Sue Parke says

    December 30, 2015 at 1:56 am

    GREAT tips! We didn’t purge before Christmas, although, we said we were going to, we just never got it to! But we did do a bunch of purging, reorganizing and rearranging the day after! Everything feels so much more put together! We still have a few things we need to switch out, but all in all I’m feeling a bit better on the toy situation in my house haha!

    Reply
  8. oneruudmom says

    December 30, 2015 at 5:04 am

    I bought containers and lids! It’s been on my list for so long. I have been putting off purging toys because Cohen “might” use them, but they are building up and it’s getting out of control. Here’s to organization!

    Reply
  9. Jennifer C. says

    December 30, 2015 at 9:41 pm

    Ever since moving, we have TOYS EVERYWHERE! This is definitely a helpful post for me!

    Reply
    • Alana says

      December 31, 2015 at 5:54 pm

      Thank you so much, Jennifer!

      Reply
  10. Innovo says

    December 31, 2015 at 5:46 pm

    Self-contained toys are truly a blessing!

    Reply
    • Alana says

      December 31, 2015 at 5:54 pm

      Oh I agree!

      Reply
  11. Karina says

    January 2, 2016 at 8:02 pm

    Creating a routine with the kids reinforce the idea of keeping toys, books and craft items where they belong. At the end of the day parents and children have to work together to make it happens until its comes naturally. I have some kids organizing rooms tips Thanks for these great tips !!

    Reply
    • Alana says

      January 2, 2016 at 8:04 pm

      Having a clean-up routine makes so much sense! Thanks so much for sharing your insights!

      Reply
  12. Drew says

    November 10, 2016 at 7:24 pm

    Good tips for finding which toys you should keep and which ones should go. I will definitely have to remember these tips. Thanks so much for sharing.

    Reply
    • Alana says

      November 10, 2016 at 7:30 pm

      Thanks so much for reading and for your comment. Deciding which toys can stay and go is definitely part of the battle when minimizing toys!

      Reply
  13. Rebeca says

    May 21, 2018 at 2:04 am

    I am with you! We have so many toys and so much clutter it makes me crazy! We’re giving away and donating all the time-and there’s still always more. We’re in the process of moving so we’re really getting rid of stuff now, with the exception of the favorites of course! Thanks for the tips! I now have fantastic reasons to get rid of the obnoxious sound making toys.

    Reply

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