Christmas was a success. The kids are thrilled with their toys. But you’re left thinking, WHAT am I supposed to do with all of these toys on top of our existing MOUNTAIN that almost morphs into a live all-consuming entity that overtakes the better part of our home? If you’re like me, you may find it’s hard being minimalistic when it comes to toys. When I sort through everything my kids have from only three and a half years of Christmases, birthdays, and special occasions, I can’t help but be filled with nostalgia and gratitude. The memories from each stage of my kids’ lives are ones I want to hold onto forever. The immense appreciation I feel for the generosity those in our lives have shown makes me want to keep everything. I don’t want anyone to think even the smallest gift is underappreciated. The counterbalance in this is that I want my sanity. I want my kids to appreciate what they have and I don’t want my home to look as though Toys R Us has thrown up all over it. So, I make a point of parting ways with toys as much as my heart can handle. Here are some of my tips on minimizing and organizing toys
This is a variation, on an older post of mine. See the original one here.
10 Tips On Minimizing And Organizing Toys
When it comes to minimizing toys, I try and purge our toys both before and after each special occasion. So once before and once after my daughter’s birthday, once before and once after my son’s birthday, once before and once after Christmas, and once before and once after Oma visits (my husband’s mom lives in Belgium and quite literally is the most generous person I know). Why before and after? Well before is preemptive and in anticipation for what is to come. After is because once we have received gifts, older toys may seem redundant and of less value. When doing this, despite making things more difficult, I try and involve my kids in the purge. While I don’t do this each and every time, it’s amazing the negotiation tactics a three-year-old can employ when a useless McDonald’s toy gathering dust is about to hit the road for good. However, I want to explain to my kids that some other children are less fortunate than they are and I want them to understand the sacrifice of giving something up for someone who doesn’t have as much as them. I also want to underscore appreciate for the toys they do have.
When minimizing toys, here are some strategies I employ to decided what should stay and what should go.
What Should Stay and What Should Go
What Should Stay
Toys that are played with frequently (I don’t have to describe this too much. You know your kids’ favourites)
Toys that encourage open-ended, imaginative play. Examples include blocks, figures, items that are toy versions of real-life items, play dough, dress-up clothes, and arts and crafts supplies. Play is pertinent for exploration, problem-solving, and trying out more complex skills and these toys encourage this.
Toys that grow with your child. Examples include what is mentioned above, dollhouses, train sets, and lego are all items that can accommodate the most primitive to the most elaborative of play.
Classic toys. Dolls, farms, blocks, cars, trains, planes, phones, and other similar items have been played with for generations. When it comes to the longevity and the relevance of toys timeless seems to be one of the best rules of thumb.
What Should Go
Anything really specific to an age group is not worth keeping for long. The exer-saucer, play mat, and textured baby dolls are amazing educational toys from the under one crowd. Shortly thereafter, they need to go. The same goes for Duplo after your kids have graduated completely to lego and so forth.
Toys that have little or no play value without the use of battery operated buttons. You may think but my Vtech or Leap Pad [insert name here] is so educational. Sure it sings, moos, and rhymes more than any other toy listed in the examples above. However, it requires next-to-nothing from your child. Sure your child may join in their approximation of song, or press a combination of lights, but research shows these are the worst toys. Yes, I said worst. While a song that plays inside a toy castle, or a train noise on a train set are hardly a big deal, the ones that are reliant on batteries for the majority of their value are worth donating. Based on the best information at hand, these toys are used literally and literally. So while I stick from a tree outside may be used to conduct an orchestra, knight a soldier, or bibity bobity boo rags into a ball gown, a buttoned, battery operated toy tends to be used only the way the toy maker intended it to be used.
Broken toys you’ve been meaning to fix for ages but haven’t.
Tips On Organizing Toys
Self-contained toys are a momma’s best friend. Playmobil, Mr. Potato Head, Lego, and Mega Bloks all have self-contained options. When choosing gifts for friends’ kids, I love choosing something that can be put away inside itself.
Containers with lids are another favourite. I try and keep things organized in their respective containers away from our main play area. The kids can go and grab a container or two to play with. Once those toys get cast aside or we are moving on to something else, we return them to their containers. (NB I’m not perfect at this. It is a continual work in progress).
Rotate toys. Using the shelves of closets, the basement, crawl space, attic, or storage area in your apartment building, rotate out your children’s toys. This keeps things exciting, minimizes the mess you’re left with, and also can prove which toys aren’t worth keeping if you and the kids end up forgetting about them altogether.
When it comes to toys what are some of your own strategies to minimize and stay organized?
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